Today, was an odd day.

First, I received a message from my friend, apologize to me saying that it was his fault to tag me in a link in fb, eventually caused me and another friend argued. Lolz.. I was so blur that time and thought, "What the heck is he talking about?" We actually didn't argue. That's the way we communicate. Unfortunately, that's the only way. Once we meet up, no matter in fb, face-to-face or even in msn, will definitely tease each other. We are get used to such way of communication. If one day he didn't tease me, I will feel very odd. XD Yet, everybody was thought that we argued until a very serious stage. This in fact made me speechless. And I didn't know actually this made them worried. *touch*

The above situation already made me felt so odd for the whole day.

Today, watched a movie entitled, "Step Up 3". It amazed me. And I love this movie very much. I like those dancing movies. This is a "must" watch movie. But not everyone will love this kinda movie. So, depends on your own, some people may think this movie is not nice. For me, this movie is definitely, thumbs up!

Went out yum cha with friends just now. While I was busy typing my assignment, I heard that you both were discussing something, about my birthday. You said, since you had promised, so you have to fulfill your promise and come all the way from your hometown to Penang, just to celebrate my birthday. *touch!!* Wanted to ask you is that true, but dare not. Lolz~ I started to consider, my heart was having contradiction. If you come, I will be happy, but how to explain to my family? If you didn't come, I will be disappointed but I feel happy as well cause I don't have to explain to my parents. Sigh.. sure you want to come? I pray not to.. XD *confused*

I wish to know how's your thinking. Dare not to ask so. Don't understand why. Thought about a quote, saying that, some words are suitable to keep inside the heart and not saying them out. When you grow up, you will realize that it is ridiculous to share everything out. I try, I'm trying. Hope I can do so. But my attitude is just so irritating and wanted to share everything out. *fed up with myself*


~A contradiction in my mind, and I don't wish to settle it though.. Sigh.. ~

Tonight, actually nothing to share with, don't know what to write as well.

Went to watch Phua Chu Kang with my friends. Erm.. this movie quite funny, no doubt. Laughing all the while in the cinema theater. Yet, not many people were watching this film. I wondered why. Planned to have second round of movie watching section but at last gave up as there will be too tired for me if I do so.

Online rumors, saying that tonight 12.30am will be having two moons in the sky as Mars is about 5500km far from Earth. I was so happy as I thought I finally can have a look on such amazing view. Yet, again, it was just a rumors. The real one should be wait until the year of 2019. Sigh.. what age will I be.. =.="

I claimed that we are having a "post-mortem" section for last night's conversation. But you said it wasn't a post mortem, it's in fact a meeting of memory. We both confessed about our feelings after we got back home last night. All those sad emotions, reasons of being sad, were all being excused. Left out all happy memories with us, I will cherish them.

I actually did noticed about your changes these few days. I wondered why but dare not to find out the answers. Yeah, once again, I chose to be a ostrich and hide inside my world. What am I scaring? I don't know. Maybe it's just scare of changing the conditions I'm having. Maybe is scare of the conditions after everything has changed. I know it will definitely have some changes, if, we continue to be like this. Sigh.. should have make a distance between us. But that is so cruel and I'm not having the heart to do so. Too pamper you until I want you to have only happiness and get rid of sadness and sorrows.

A secret: I actually felt like putting my head on your shoulder last night. Yet, my stubbornness does not allow me to do. I have to be firm and strong enough to cope with my own feelings. However, I do hope that someone can offer me his or her shoulder. Someone who is with me whenever I'm tired of everything and need some rest in my life.

Lolz.. it's time for me to be "two is better than one". But, where is the one? who is the one?
It's left to be unanswered. ^^



~Sharing is caring, you finally understand it~

Tonight, felt guilty for cheating my friends. Sigh.. Because of you, yes, it's you, made me cheated my friends saying that going dinner with my bro but in fact was watching movie with you. Sorry guys.. >.<"

This night, in fact, was a memorable night for both of us. First, thank you for the "first date". XD *joking la* Second, Thank you, for accompanying me until late night, just to console and consult me. I should blame on the moon tonight, made me confessed so many things about my family to you. I must be crazy already. Yes, it's the moon's fault. XD

I'm wondering, from past until now, what kinda situation had brought you up. Your situation made me heartache. I was so difficult to breathe and later on I found out that your situation makes me so sad until I can't even breath well. I'm not pity you. It's true. Just that my heart so painful. I was too into ur situation just now. Until I can't even control my emotion well but to let me to be so sad. It made me so feel like hugging you and lending my shoulder to you. My shoulder is always be there for you to use it. ^^

When you are feeling tired, just rest on my shoulder. That's your special place. Lolz.. Don't think that I'm so good. You have to lend me your shoulder as well, whenever it is needed. This is a deal between both of us. I wont forget.

I was shocked, when you told me your experience. I so surprised, when you so believed in me. even me myself also won't trust myself 100%. I appreciated it, very much!


~Cherish every people, every moment, when you can. I cherish you, every moment~

Tonight's conversation, makes me realized that how careless and forgetful am I. I just kept on forgetting what I had promised or what people had promised to me. Sorry.

So, I decided to write down all the things you or me had promised.

• Tell me anything, you feel like sharing to me. Same to me.
• Stand by you, all the while.
• Be your listener, whenever is needed.
• You will not lie to me, in any case. If you really have to lie, please don't let me know the things. I rather I don't know.
• Accompany you, for taking a stroll, whenever you feel upset or feel like crying.

Besides, I realized that, you are more than what I have thought. You are just so understand me. I'm happy. Finally I don't have to keep on explaining something. You will understand why I do so. *hug hug* thank you.

Am I understand you? The answer is no. I felt so helpless. Why am I so careless, never care for your things. That's why the quote says, Silence is gold. When you stay silent, you can observe more than when you're talking. Most of the time I am talking, that's why I'm not able to observe anything about you. And, you are just too good in acting. What a complicated mind are you having. Hmm..

One of my friends, wanted to drop a subject, an elective, just because he failed his midterm test. I so feel like punching him when I heard this. But still, I explained the pros and cons if he does so. At last, I left the final decision to himself. For me, failed midterm test is really kinda sad, but can't drop the subject, for sure. First, it will waste my money. *will be super upset* Second, it will only make me suffer for the following trimester, might as well I suffered for this trimester, and have a better following trimester. Third, if it really pull down my CGPA, that is only for the particular trimester. For the next trimester, I still can fight it back. This is basically what I am thinking. It may differs from others. Yet, this is the only way to encourage or to convince myself not to drop subjects. XD

Recently fall in love with Hebe's song - 寂寞寂寞就好
I like this song so much.. I like the feeling this song wanted to share to.. I can understand what feeling it wanted to give.. Here is the lyrics, hope you all can like it:

歌名：寂寞寂寞就好

歌手：田馥甄 Hebe

還是原來那個我 不過撂掉幾公升淚所以變瘦 

對著鏡子我承諾 遲早我會換這張臉應對笑容 

不算什麼 愛錯就愛錯 

早點認錯 早一點解脫 

我寂寞寂寞就好 

這時候誰都別來安慰 擁抱 

就讓我一個人去痛到受不了 

傷到 快瘋掉 死不了就還好 

我寂寞寂寞就好 

你真的不用來我回憶裡 微笑 

我就不相信我會笨到 忘不了

賴著 不放掉 人本來就寂寞的

借來的都該還掉 

我總會把你戒掉 

還是原來那個你 是我自己做夢你又改變什麼 

再多的愛也沒用 每個人有每個人的業障因果 

會有什麼 什麼都沒有 早點看破 才看的見以後

我寂寞寂寞就好 

這時候誰都別來安慰 擁抱 

就讓我一個人去痛到受不了 

傷到 快瘋掉 死不了就還好 

我寂寞寂寞就好 

你真的不用來我回憶裡 微笑 

我就不相信我會笨到 忘不了 

賴著 不放掉 人本來就寂寞的 

我總會把你戒掉

~If, and only if, you are willing to share more to me~

Today woke up early morning, planned to celebrate birthday for my bestie -- Shu Han babe~
Yesterday slept very late, made me super duper tire now. Yet, just don't feel like sleeping. XD

A simple celebration, as usual, sing k. 7 of us.
Hmm.. Don't know why, just don't feel like singing, maybe is because I'm bored of singing the same songs. lolz.
I think I should have show my smile face all the while to avoid people from saying me emo. Gosh.. How innocent me. Didn't smile will also let people say I'm emo. =.="

So guilty about zhi cheng as he will be having exam tomorrow night -- law for engineers. But he still joined us for our celebration, pity him. It's okay as well la, he can celebrate for his so-called "special one". How satisfied. XD Good luck to his exam.

Yesterday I think I maybe laughing in my dream. Haha! As you just unintentionally said out something that will make me happy for the whole day. Although you claimed that it was just kidding, I was just so happy. ^^
We both are actually the same type of people. Sharing for the good points of each of us yesterday night. You voiced out my good points, I appreciated it, even though me myself also don't know actually I'm that kinda people.
Yet, I didn't voice out yours. I just scared, scare what I observed was wrong. If I interpret wrongly, I scare you will.. .. sigh.. just don't know how to explain the feelings. Plus, I need some time to think about it, clearly.

One thing I can be sured of is that, you are knowledgeable. No doubt.
Lolz.. should have start to think clearly about your good points. Or you want me to voice out little by little? I think the second one will be better, at least for me. =)


~don't always look down on yourself. just be yourself. I'll like the way you are.~

真正的感情根本不需要追的。

两个人的默契，在慢慢将两颗心的距离缩短，在无意识中渐渐靠近彼此。

从好朋友到情人，真正的感情是用不了多久的。

从你喜欢上他的那一刻起，也许他也在那一刻喜欢上了你。

真正的爱情需要两个人在一起是轻松快乐的，没有压力。

爱一个人不是毫无保留地付出。

我们首先是属于自己的，而不是把我们的全部都给对方。

如你不愿意说的隐私，有秘密的人才是成熟的，有时候不说出来反而更好。

外貌和个性哪个更重要？

男人年轻的时候往往喜欢漂亮的女子，25岁以后，会选择和自己性格合适的女子，能和自己一起过日子的人。

喜欢一个人，太急切了，反而不好。

越想得到的越得不到；得到了也很难珍惜，来得快去得也快。

细水长流，爱情会更长久。

相爱容易相处难。

相处中最重要的是宽容和妥协，在信任和了解的基础上。

否则任何两个人都无法相处。

纯纯的爱也许只有一次，但是真爱未必只有一次。

时间会抚平一切伤痕。

我们其实是可以爱上很多人的。

我们不是喜欢某个人，而是喜欢某种类型的人。

先来的人和我们相遇了，于是我们幸福地走到了一起；对于后到的人，只能抱以歉意，同时，祝福他早日找到属于他自己的幸福。

爱一个人，很多时候实际上是习惯了这个人。

现实和浪漫哪个更重要？现实。没有现实为基础，浪漫就是空中楼阁。

大学校园的爱情往往随着毕业而告终，大多是因为不现实，不在一个城市。

只有相互欣赏相互佩服各有所长的人，才会碰撞出最美丽的火花，也才会结出最甜美的爱情果实。

分手后我们还可以做朋友吗？最好不要。剪不断，理还乱。

过去了就过去了，我们不是生活在过去，而是现在。

爱情不等于生活，只是生活的一部分。

不要因为自己长相不如对方而放弃追求的打算，长相只是一时的印象，真正决定能否结合主要取决于双方的性格。

帅哥配丑女，丑女配帅哥的太多了。

恋爱的时间能长尽量长。

这最少有两点好处：

一，充分、尽可能长的享受恋爱的愉悦，

二，两人相处时间越长，越能检验彼此是否真心，越能看出两人性格是否合得来。

如果两人彼此倾心相爱，什么事都不做，静静相对都会感觉是浪漫的。

否则，即使两人坐到月亮上拍拖，也是感觉不到浪漫的。

是否门当户对不要紧，最重要应该是兴当趣对，不然没有共同语言，即使在一起，仍然会感觉到孤独。

持久的爱情源于彼此发自内心的真爱，建立在平等的基础之上。

爱情既是风险投资，难免有去无回，失恋是再正常不过的事情。

爱过，就够了。

既然不能在一起，总有不能在一起的理由。

不能因为别人负了你，就不负责任地游戏、报复或是堕落，自己演的戏，总要自己收场的。

何况，他不爱你，你做什么他都不会在乎。

如果爱上，就不要轻易放过机会。

莽撞，可能使你后悔一阵子；怯懦，却可能使你一辈子后悔。

没有经历过爱情的人生是不完整的，没有经历过痛苦的爱情是不深刻的。

爱情使人生丰富，痛苦使爱情升华。

你可能习惯与现在的恋人，明明不太喜欢，但在一起久了，习惯使人不太愿做新的选择。

人生会面临无数次选择。

当给你机会选择时，你一定要谨慎；

一旦你做出了选择，就永远不要后悔；

拿得起，放得下，该断则断，该忘记的，就把它忘记；该珍惜的，就要把它珍惜。

我们总说："我要找一个很爱很爱的人，才会谈恋爱。"

但是当对方问你，怎样才算是很爱很爱的时候，你却无法回答他，因为你自己也不知道。

没错，我们总是以为，我们会找到一个自己很爱很爱的人。

可是后来，当我们猛然回首，我们才会发觉自己曾经多么天真。

假如从来没有开始，你怎么知道自己会不会很爱很爱那个人呢？

其实，很爱很爱的感觉，是要在一起经历了许多事情之后才会发现的。

或许每个人都希望能够找到自己心目中百分之百的伴侣，但是你有没有想过，在你身边会不会早已经有人默默对你付出很久了，只是你没有发觉而已呢？

所以，还是仔细看看身边的人吧，他或许已经等你很久了。

当你爱一个人的时候，爱到八分绝对刚刚好。

所有的期待和希望都只有七八分，剩下两三分用来爱自己。

如果你还继续爱得更多，很可能会给对方沉重的压力，让彼此喘不过气来，完全丧失了爱情的乐趣。

所以请记住，喝酒不要超过六分醉，吃饭不要超过七分饱，爱一个人不要超过八分。

如果你也正在为爱迷惘，或许下面这段话可以给你一些启示：

爱一个人，

要了解也要开解；

要道歉也要道谢；

要认错也要改错；

要体贴也要体谅；

是接受而不是忍受；

是宽容而不是纵容；

是支持而不是支配；

是慰问而不是质问；

是倾诉而不是控诉；

是难忘而不是遗忘；

是彼此交流而不是凡事交代；

是为对方默默祈求而不是向对方诸多要求。

可以浪漫，但不要浪费，不要随便牵手，更不要随便放手。

浪漫的人这样描述与爱人的相逢：

千万人当中，在时间的无涯的荒野里，没有早一步，也没 有晚一步，刚巧赶上了。

两个人好着的时候，你不妨就这样想吧。

如果不好了，你要明白是否和某人在一起，不过是一个再简单不过的概率问题。

数千个擦肩而过中，你给谁机会谁就和你有缘分，纵没有甲，也会有乙。

别傻等那种想像中的木石前盟般的缘分了，生活中哪有那么多传奇。

别醒着做梦了，难道你忘了艺术虽然来源生活，却还高于生活吗？

没有谁是我们一生非拥有不可的。

Today woke up early morning, to enter a team building camp for IVAQ. I totally speechless when my leader "forcefully" asked us to attend this camp. It's totally sucks!! The worst camp I had ever entered since my secondary school. I wondered how they gonna be leader in IVAQ. Ya, basically, I'm just so doubt about their capabilities. She totally doesn't have the leadership and just too emotional while deciding plans and giving instructions. She also has bias towards teams in the camp. This really makes us no point to have a team building camp as they all are just main buruk.

No doubt, my team is the worst among 4 teams. Haha! I actually do not know what's going wrong with my team as every camp I attended, my team will just be the last and worst. So, I had get a conclusion that my team members including me, are just not too aggressive. We are those polite and manners type.

Yet, I actually did enjoy in this camp. It was really helped, in team building, although not too much. My team members are all funny type. I love them~

We went to watch my bestie's performance at Tsu Chi straight after we came back from camp. Rush like hell. >.<"
I actually do not really like to go this kinda place, as I think this kinda activities will just brain wash people and it makes me a bit scare of it. Because of my bestie, I decided to go. The performance is excellent! I knew that, my bestie's hardship will not be wasted. She had been prepared since long time ago. They really did a great job. Well done!

Guess what, I really brain-washed by them. lolz! I filled in a form and become a vegetarian for one week, starting from today. I can see all my friends are looking at me one kind. I don't feel like caring, how mad~

Only able to have our dinner at 10pm. But in fact I was not that hungry. After dinner then planned for birthday count down for my another bestie~ So we one car of people went to Portuguese Settlement to feel the sea breeze there. How enjoyable it was! It is definitely better than Klebang, Pantai Puteri. lolz..

Took a lot of pictures tonight and i think my friend will upload to fb soon~ lolz.

You forced me, to choose among a list of people. Do you understand my feelings? How you want me to choose? Who you want me to choose?
It's absolutely okay as I used the same method to treat you back. How will you feel?

The reason I don't want to share to my friends is because, I'm just so indecisive. I scare, my relatives, my friends, my secondary classmates, and so on will give u or me or us pressure. What kinda people they are, I'm pretty sure about it. I believed that, if I share it out, things will go differently. Things will go beyond my expectations and everything will be changed. I just don't want this to happen. So, I rather keep you as a secret of mine, than seeing our relationship status changes to something I don't want to be.


~You are just a secret of mine~

1、你说的开始，是我们结束的倒计时

2、天空下雨了，可以打伞；心下雨了，该怎么办呢

3、不要给伤害你的人第二次伤你的机会

4、爱一个人比等一个人容易，等一个人比爱一个人有意义，如果你选择了爱自己，那只是因为你如此的不堪一击

5、剩下二十一克的灵魂，是我最后爱你的方式

6、人生就像茶几，上面摆满了杯具（悲剧）

7、一个人只要不再想要就什么都可以放下

8、到不了的都叫做远方，回不去的都叫做过去，不回头的都叫做别离

9、孤独使人发胖那是寂寞在膨胀

10、曾经以为念念不忘的事情，就在我们念念不忘的过程，被我们遗忘了

11、如果全世界背叛了你，我愿为你背叛全世界

12、等待，不是为了你能回来，而是找个借口，不离开

13、过错，是短暂的遗憾；错过，是永久的遗憾

14、你能看到我留在屏幕上的字，你看不到我流在键盘上的眼泪

15、原来喜欢不可以伪装，原来快乐不可以假装，原来永远和瞬间一样

16、记忆如果成了碎片，那是因为里面全部都摆满了心痛

17、你的微笑辇过的每个夏天，深深的车辙印子，成了我心里永不会愈合的伤

18、请不要在我的世界里走来走去，我只是害怕你走进了，我就不想你再走出去

19、喜欢一个人上路，没有方向，没有归宿，只想找一个适合自己的地方停留

20、思念一段时光的掌纹，躲在某一时间，某一地点，想念一个站在来路也站在去路的让我们牵挂的人

21、.我以为蝴蝶飞不过沧海，是以为蝴蝶没有飞过沧海的勇气，十年以后我才发现， 不是蝴蝶飞不过去，而是沧海的那一头，早已没有了等待…… 

22.你走的那天，我决定不掉泪，迎着风撑着眼帘用力不眨眼…… 

23.多谢你的绝情，让我学会死心…… 

24.带著一根烟.浪迹天涯…… 

25.木头对火说:“抱我”!火拥抱了木头`木头微笑着化为灰烬!火哭了!泪水熄灭了自己 -
当木头爱上烈火注定会被烧伤…… 

26.当眼泪流下来，才知道，分开也是另一种明白。 

27.我真的爱你，闭上眼，以为我能忘记，但流下的眼泪，却没有骗到自己…… 

28.回家的路上我哭了，眼泪再一次崩溃孓.无能为力这样走着，再也不敢骄傲奢求了。我还 能够说些什么？我还能够做些什么？我好希望你会听见，因为爱你我让你走了…… 

29.不要轻易说爱，许下的承诺就是欠下的债！ 

30.是我的终究是我的`我终归是你的一个过客`你始终不爱我`注定我和你就是什么都不会发生`注定`注定只是注定`不管我怎么跨越不管我怎么想靠近你`你还是会离开我的`我好想你`好想好想你`好想好想见你 

31.脸上的快乐，别人看得到。心里的痛又有谁能感觉到. 

32.分手后不可以做朋友,因为彼此伤害过.不可以做敌人.因为彼此深爱过,所以我们变成了最熟悉的陌生人. 

33.有的人与人之间的相遇就像是流星,瞬间迸发出令人羡慕的火花,却注定只是匆匆而过. 

34.时间会慢慢沉淀，有些人会在你心底慢慢模糊。学会放手，你的幸福需要自己的成全。 

35.我能感觉到你的心痛，你有你说不出的无奈...但是你做出一副无所谓的样子，你越是这样我就越难受` 

36.有些的时候，正是为了爱才悄悄躲开.躲开的是身影，躲不开的却是那份默默的情怀。

37.爱到分才显珍贵，很多人都不懂珍惜拥有.只到失去才看到，其实那最熟悉的才是最珍贵的. 

38.有时，爱也是种伤害.残忍的人，选择伤害别人，善良的人，选择伤害自己. 

39.你走了，带着我全部的爱走了，只是一句分手.我忍着眼泪看着你的背影，好想最后在抱你一次，好想在对你说一次“我爱你” 

40.淋过雨的空气，疲倦了的伤心，我记忆里的童话已经慢慢的融化.

41.既然爱，为什么不说出口，有些东西失去了，就在也回不来了！ 

42.相爱是种感觉，当这种感觉已经不在时，我却还在勉强自己，这叫责任！分手是种勇气！当这种勇气已经不在时，我却还在鼓励自己，这叫悲壮！

43.人生不止，寂寞不已。寂寞人生爱无休，寂寞是爱永远的主题.我和我的影子独处.它说它有悄悄话想跟我说.它说它很想念你^原来`我和我的影子`都在想你` 

44.在完美的彼岸刚刚上演了一场悲剧，所有的血与泪在枯萎的荆棘蕴育出一个花蕾，它将经历轮回的七场雷雨，然后绽放在潮湿的空气中…… 

45.鱼上钩了，那是因为鱼爱上了渔夫，它愿用生命来博渔夫一笑…… 

46.喜欢在你身上留下属於我的印记，却不曾记起你从未属於过我…… 
如果有一天，不再喜欢你了，我的生活会不会又像从前那样堕落，颓废…我不想再要那样的生活，所以，在我还没有放弃你之前，请你,至少要喜欢上我…… 

47.其实我一直在你身边守候,等你靠在我肩上诉说,会不会有那么一天,你的温柔都属于我,我不会再让你难过,让你的泪再流! 

48.你当我是个风筝,要不把我放了,要不然收好带回家,别用一条看不见的情思拴着我,让我心伤. 

49.窗外下着雪，泡一杯咖啡，握到它凉了，才知道又想起了你。我的期待你如何才能明白！ 

50.第一次哭是因为你不在，第一次笑是因为遇到你，第一次笑着流泪是因为不能拥有你！ 

51. 岁月就象一条河，左岸是无法忘却的回忆，右岸是值得把握的青春年华，中间飞快流淌的，是年轻隐隐的伤感。世间有许多美好的东西，但真正属于自己的却并不多。看庭前花开花落，荣辱不惊，望天上云卷云舒，去留无意。在这个纷绕的世俗世界里，能够学会用一颗平常的心去对待周围的一切，也是一种境界。 

52.我们的生活有太多无奈，我们无法改变，也无力去改变，更糟的是，我们失去了改变的想法…… 

53.看庭前花开花落，荣辱不惊，望天上云卷云舒，去留无意。 

54.在这个纷绕的世俗世界里，能够学会用一颗平常的心去对待周围的一切，也是一种境界。

55.人生最遗憾的,莫过于,轻易地放弃了不该放弃的,固执地,坚持了不该坚持的…… 

56.简单安静的生活其实不幸福`所以我只拥抱刹那`绵延持久的感觉根本不快乐`所以我只信仰瞬间。 

57.有些失去是注定的,有些缘分是永远不会有结果的.爱一个人不一定会拥有,拥有一个人就一定要好好去爱她…… 

58.心已死,泪也干,不堪回首魂亦牵.梦惊醒,不了情,往事如烟挥不去.亦虚亦实,亦爱亦恨,叶落声花自残.只道是,寻寻觅觅,冷冷清清,凄凄惨惨戚戚;却无奈,天长地久有时尽,此恨绵绵无绝期. 

59.世界上没有任何东西可以永恒。如果它流动，它就流走；如果它存著，它就干涸；如果它生长，它就慢慢凋零。 

60.一个做女人的痛苦:当她和她所爱的男人有了肉体关系以后，她就很自然地把这种关系视为一种永远，但男人却可以不同，他们可能只会觉得那是生存方式的又一种演绎。正如书上说的：男女之间，在没有婚姻的承诺前，还是保持简单的关系为好，否则，真的没有岁月可以回头. 

61.如果，不幸福，如果，不快乐，那就放手吧；如果，舍不得、放不下，那就痛苦吧。 

62.人生短短几十年，不要给自己留下了什么遗憾，想笑就笑，想哭就哭，该爱的时候就去爱，无谓压抑自己。人生的苦闷有二，一是欲望没有被满足，二是它得到了满足。 

63.所谓花心，就是有了爱情和面包，还想吃蛋糕的心情；所谓外遇，就是潜出围城，跌入陷阱；所谓浪漫，就是帮老婆买包心菜时，还会顺手带回一支玫瑰花；所谓厨房，就是结婚时红地毯通向的正前方…… 

64.不敢说出口,因为我胆小,因为如果你拒绝,我以后就不能够再见到你了,宁愿默默的爱着你,不能让你知道,直到,直到你投进别人的环抱! 

65.一个人想事好想找个人来陪。一个人失去了自己。不知还有没有要在追的可望。 

66.这个世界就这么不完美。你想得到些什么就不得不失去些什么。 

67.恋爱，在感情上，当你想征服对方的时候，实际上已经在一定程度上被对方征服了。首先是对方对你的吸引，然后才是你征服对方的欲望。 

68.我放下了尊严，放下了个性，放下了固执，都只是因为放不下你。 

69.如果爱上，就不要轻易放过机会。莽撞，可能使你后悔一阵子；怯懦，却可能使你后悔一辈子。 

70.没有经历过爱情的人生是不完整的，没有经历过痛苦的爱情是不深刻的。爱情使人生丰富，痛苦使爱情升华。 

71.等待你的关心，等到我关上了心。

72.走完同一条街,回到两个世界。

73.想你的时候有些幸福，幸福得有些难过。

74.你是我猜不到的不知所措，我是你想不到的无关痛痒。

75.所谓最难忘的，就是从来不曾想起，却永远也不会忘记 。

76.谁把谁真的当真，谁为谁心疼。

77.多谢你的绝情，让我学会死心。

78.当眼泪流下来，才知道，分开也是另一种明白。

79.我真的爱你，闭上眼，以为我能忘记，但流下的眼泪，却没有骗到自己。

80.有时，爱也是种伤害。残忍的人，选择伤害别人，善良的人，选择伤害自己。

81.人生最遗憾的，莫过于，轻易地放弃了不该放弃的，固执地，坚持了不该坚持的。

82.脸上的快乐，别人看得到。心里的痛又有谁能感觉到。

83.不要轻易说爱，许下的承诺就是欠下的债！

84.不是不死心是死不了心。

85.痛过之后就不会觉得痛了，有的只会是一颗冷漠的心 。

86.真心离伤心最近 。

87.我想哭，可是我已经不知道该怎么流泪了。

88.在原谅与绝望之间游荡，唯一的感觉是伤 伤 伤！

89.思念一个人的滋味，就象是喝了一杯冰冷的水，然后一滴一滴凝成热泪。

90. 喜欢一个人没有错，错就错在喜欢一个不喜欢自己的人。

91.无法拒绝的是开始 ，无法抗拒的是结束。

92.等待.....也许并不容易；伤害......却轻而易举。

93.人生若只如初见,当时只道是寻常

94，如果发短信息给一个人，他一直不回，不要再发了。没有这么卑微的等待。 

95、如果没有人陪，学着一个人听音乐看书写点心情日记。这是个好习惯。 

96、如果一个人很难过，找个角落或者在被子里哭一下，不需要别人同情可怜，哭过之后一样开心生活。 

97、如果一个人开始怠慢你，请你离开他。不懂得珍惜你的人不要为之不舍，更不必继续付出你的友情或爱情，到头来受伤的是自己他人不会为之难过。 

98、如果可以不抽烟，别抽。如果可以不喝酒，别喝。这是不爱惜自己身体的表现，如果只因一些人，那么我们别傻了，爱你的人不会让你难过的。 

99、伤心的时候找个信任的朋友诉说一下，不要一个人默默承受，这只会会更添寂寞感与忧伤。 

100、不开心的时候白天看看蓝天晚上看看夜色，广阔的天空自有属于我们 爱，宁可高傲的发霉不要低调的恋爱。跟自己说我是最好的。保持一份自信。 -

101、宁缺毋滥。不要因为寂寞随手抓一个恋人，这对两人都不公平，而且太缺乏责任感。找个知己不要是恋人。 

102、记住你喜欢的人的生日，包括你的家人，当然，还有自己。生日没有人送礼物也无所谓，你可以买精美的礼物，送给妈妈和爸爸。 

103、闲下来的时候,放一段柔情音乐，翻阅几页好书，然后睡个懒觉，快哉。心情不好的时候,也可以睡一觉。 

104、从现在开始，聪明一点，不要问别人想不想你？爱不爱你？若是要想你或者爱你自然会对你说，但是从你的嘴里说出来，别人会很骄傲和不在乎你。 

105、不要太在意一些人太在乎一些事，顺其自然以最佳心态面对，因为这世界就是这么不公平往往在最在乎的事物面前我们最没有价值。 

106、不要为了任何人任何事折磨自己。比如不吃饭、哭泣、自闭、抑郁，这些都是傻瓜才做的事。当然，偶尔傻一下有必要，人生不必时时聪明。 

107、任何情况下，背后不说他人是非。如果一定要你说，说好话。多个朋友是好事，即使不是很要好的，总比因为自己说话不慎重不思考而多一个敌人好得多。 

108、允许偶尔看肥皂剧，但不可成为依赖。允许偶尔披头散发，但要注重场合。允许偶尔骂脏话，但只限在老友面前或者独自一人时，记得说过后要忘掉那些让你难过的事。 

109、一定要有几个异性朋友，没有非分之想.就是关键时候,帮你出出主意的好友。 

110、学会承受痛苦自己调整心态。有些话，适合烂在心里，有些痛苦，适合无声无息的忘记。当经历过，你成长了，自己知道就好。很多改变，不需要你自己说，别人会看得到。 

111、能不和人争吵尽量避免。一个发怒的人是很恐怖的，会因控制不了情绪变成疯子。忍耐然后思索问题的根源最后平静心态解决它 。 

112、不管和谁有了矛盾和别扭，解决的时间不要超过24小时。否则麻烦会更多。在可以接受的范围内，先道歉。让自己做做坏人不是件真的坏事。 

113、有些事，有些人，是不是如果你真的想忘记，就一定会忘记。

114、再见，也许永远不见。

115、我内心固执地追求，只有我自己看得见，但我希望我没错。

116、我常常在思索我们的青春，它真是一个奇形怪状的玩意儿，短短的身子偏偏拖了一个长长的尾巴，像翅膀一样招摇着，久久不肯离去。

117、最痛苦的是，消失了的东西，它就永远的不见了，永远都不会再回来，却偏还要留下一根细而尖的针，一直插在你心头，一直拔不去，它想让你疼，你就得疼

118、一个人最大的缺点，不是自私、多情、野蛮、任性，而是偏执地爱一个不爱自己的人。

119、结局和过程都有了，再去纠缠，连自己都觉得贪婪。

120、我们都要面向太阳，骄傲的活着

121、喜欢的歌，静静地听，喜欢的人，远远地看！

122、你的心里有一面墙,推开就能看见天堂.

123、爱是一场战争,我不怕受伤只怕你不快乐.

124、我们都是单翅膀的天使,只有拥抱着才能飞翔.

125、原以为自己很坚强也很浪漫,也许每一个早恋的女孩都会这么想.其实走过以后才会知道,自己承受不住那样的负荷,因为还没到那个年龄.

126、亲爱的,我只是转身 并不是怨你

127、我一路狂奔，渴望在拥挤匆忙的人群里找到一个和我相似的面孔，她有和我相似的命运．我可以在她的身上看到自己生命的参照，何去何从，不再那么仓皇

128、倘若一无消息，如沉船后静静的海面，其实也是静静地记得。

129、最疼的疼是原谅，最黑的黑是背叛

130、亲爱的微笑、眼泪、一朵花、一粒沙、一串暗红色的冰糖葫芦，坚持不哭的维尼小熊，写在玻璃上的誓言，我疼过的心尖，皆是我们爱过的证据。

131、记住该记住的，忘记该忘记的，改变能改变的，接受不能改变的。

132、左手握着幸福，右手握着回忆，花开不败……

133、有些事 不能说不能说 一说就是错

134、我是一朵半途而废的花,绝望之后依然等待开放

135、我们就是这样苍老的，从时光的一端碾转到时光的另一端，请别说再见，不需要再见

136、跟着你,在哪里,做什么,都好....

137、没有人见过深海鱼流眼泪，就以为它不会悲伤，那是因为它生活在深深的海底，它的眼泪，人们看不到而已~

138、牵过的手虽已分开 但你和童年一样会住在我的心里 你快乐 就好~

139、我们都是没有未来的人，这一 点非常可怕！

140、我的心居然在无波澜,好象年少的坚贞,只是一场梦.!

141、上帝做证，我是一个好姑娘

142、我有没有跟你说过爱是我不变的信仰，我有没有告诉过你爱就是永远把一个人放在心上

143、那个在不经意中，也许就改变了我一生的女孩。我相信总有一天，我们会在世界的屋顶再次相遇。

144、我知道无论我走到哪里，你都会陪在我身边。陪我哭，陪我笑，陪我等待，陪我开花。

145、男生的誓言往往像甜而脆的薄饼，进入嘴巴就会慢慢的溶化。可是它又会迅速地潜伏进你的体内，占领你的心。

146、很久以后我回味此情此景，才知道这不过是一次“练习”而已。在甜语而脆弱的爱情里，我们都这样不断在“练习”，“练习”失去，“练习”承受，“练习”思念，在重复重复高高低低的预热中，走向我们最终的早已既定的结局。

147、如果真的有人让你难以忘记，去找他，一颗心吊着，比一颗心死了还要难受。

148、染上了尘埃，等待一场风暴的洗礼。

149、有些事,有些人,当你想着去忘却的时候,只是在你的心上,重新印刷了一遍!

150、我一直喜欢下午的阳光。它让我相信这个世界任何事情都会有转机，相信命运的宽厚和美好。我们终归要长大，带着一种无怨的心情悄悄地长大。归根到底，成长是一种幸福。

151、沙漏颠倒反覆，人生的阵痛便经历一次又一次。

152、勇敢的离开，就像风筝那样，飞向，蓝得那么灼热的天。

153、沙漏记得,我们遗忘的时光。

154、谁是谁的救世主呢？

155、也许，有的人，是有的人的劫数；而有的人，就是有的人的拯救吧。

156、 甜言蜜语，说给左耳听。

157、新伤覆旧伤，盖不及，修不好，唯有勇敢是唯一自救武器。

158、爱情里，总有一个主角和一个配角，累的永远是主角，伤的永远是配角。

159、不要轻易用过去来衡量生活的幸与不幸，每个人的生命都是可以绽放美丽的，只要你珍惜。

160、没有人永远十七岁，但永远有人十七岁。

161、因为依赖一份只有我记得的回忆，我已经长大。长到可以勇敢的面对人 。